Helping Your Child Sleep Well

Illustration by:
Mariko Francis

It is estimated that as many as 30% of all children may have a sleep disorder at some point during childhood. Sleep disorders can impact health, school performance, day to day activities  & social-emotional adjustment. For this reason it is important for both parents and educators to understand these disruptions and simple ways to  assist children to rest and sleep better.


After just 1 night of poor sleep, the decision making part of the brain shuts down & anxiety takes over. After a few nights of disturbed sleep, blood sugar and electrolytes go off balance & concentration on even simple tasks is extremely difficult if not impossible.  Long term sleep disruptions cause lower immunity, elevated stress response, changes in mood, obesity, depression and diminished ability in cognitive functions.



While the average adult requires 8 about hours of sleep per night, babies 1-12 months old, need at least 14-15 hours of daily sleep. For children ages 1-3, the average amount is 12 hours; age 4-12, 10 hours; and for teens, 9 hours a night.


Although these numbers are ideal, many children do not come close to reaching them & getting the restful sleep they need. In particular, ADHD and sensory challenged children cannot get to sleep, and when they do finally get to sleep they have a hard time staying asleep.


We all want our children to participate in recreational activities, however, please be selective about how much and what kind of activities you allow your child to engage in. Children need down time-time to rest. What may seem like a fun & active schedule to adults can be overwhelming, deplete energy & disruptive to a child’s healthy sleep patterns, and leave everyone feeling tired, cranky and unbalanced.


One of the distinctions I like to make is that rest and sleep are two different things. The human brain needs both to function properly.

Sleep is a passive, unconscious activity in which only the brain, heart and lungs are active. There is no conscious awareness of the environment. Rest is when you are fully & consciously aware of your surroundings. The environment might be neutralized from all excess sensory stimulus, activity stops and thought is directed to less intense processes-(such as towards the breathing or a specific mental image in order to calm and 'recharge the batteries'. This is commonly called imagery or meditation. I will discuss these techniques in my next article.)

For now, below are three of the most common sleep problems and some tips to help address them:


Problem:
Can’t get to sleep: Mind is racing-can’t “shut it off”.

Try This:

• Stick to a consistent bedtime & waking schedule no matter what. Exposure to light/dark at the same time every day helps the body regulate itself to sleep and waking activities.

Supported Child's Pose
Photo ©2011 B.Gini

• Exercise! But not within 4 hours of bedtime. Movement (such as gentle yoga) will help release excess muscle tension and facilitate restful sleep. Try restorative postures like "Supported Child's Pose" pictured at right.

• Shut off the TV, computer and video games at least 30-45 minutes before bed. The flashing images stimulate the brain and cause an adrenalin response, similar to the stress response, that prevents sleep.


• Do a calming visual activity to wind-down. Coloring, painting, bead necklaces, Colorforms or making a collage or album of peaceful images will assist in the calming process and transition to bedtime.


• Take a warm bath. Warm bath water raises and lowers the body temperature, making it feel tired. You can also try 3 drops of chamomile essential oil in the bathwater. *(Please use aromatherapy with caution with allergic & sensory challenged children! Read more about Aromatherapy here.)

A simple "Bed-Night" snack (as my friend's daughter used to call it) with a combination of carbs, calcium and protein about 30 minutes before bed will also help to induce sleep.


Problem:
Won’t stay asleep: Eyes open same time every night.

Try This:

• Absolutely NO caffeine/Sugar for 3-4 hours before bed time. These chemicals stay in the system for at least 8 hours preventing the brain from entering deeper sleep.

• Read a bedtime story, look at photo albums or play an instrumental music CD, (designed to distract, not engage the attention) until sleep happens.

• Darken the room as much as possible. Light from a night light, clock, streetlamp, or iPod passes thru eyelids and signals the brain to ‘wake up’. You can use a bandanna or scarf to drape digital clocks.

Acupressure
Photo ©2011 B.Gini

• Encourage the child to stay in bed. Show then how to gently self-massage the hand, (shown at left) foot or scalp to help relax them back to sleep. (There are thousands of nerve endings in each hand and foot as well as the scalp. Massaging gently in a circular motion with help give input to the sensory system, signaling it to relax. Heavy work activities & a  deep pressure massage on back, arms and legs before bed will help calm the sensory system for several hours.)

Problem:
Auditory Sensitivity- Falls right to sleep, every sound wakes her up.

Try This:

• Natural, low level soothing sounds of nature helps calm and soothe an over reactive auditory system.

• Pillow position: ensure that neck and spine are aligned to relieve cramps and discomfort. Use a flatter pillow for stomach sleepers.

• Remove furry family members. Pet activity increases late at night and the early AM and will disturb human family members.

• Transition time: Take at least 45 min to an hour to prep for next day before going to bed: pack backpack, make lunch, lay out clothes, etc. Then prep self: brush teeth & hair and do some yoga or stretching before relaxing in bed with deep breathing or soft instrumental music.

Another little known strategy is to encourage the child to lie on his/her Right side. (For older children you can use stuffed animal to hold or a pillow to 'hug'.) The reason is that every 30-40 minutes our nostril dominance changes-meaning we naturally alternate breathing (primarily) out of one nostril or the other. The side we breathe in and out of will stimulate the opposite side of the brain. Sleeping on the right side, encourages the left (top) nostril to open & will stimulate the area of the brain that controls calming & restful sleep.

Sleep Well!

For more information on Relaxation, please contact me at:
barbara@bodylogique.com


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