Constructive Fidgeting for Self-Regulation



Photo: sensiblematheducation.com

 How many times have you told a fidgety student to sit still and focus so they can complete a task?

Telling a child to "Stop fidgeting" and “Sit still!”, "Quiet hands/body" or “Look at me when I talk to you”  is counter productive. Instead, understand and acknowledge that these actions (sometimes called "stims" ) are not signs of disrespect or bad behavior, but a way for the child to self-adjust when they have difficulty paying attention. All children require fidgeting & sensory-motor activities to help them function well.

I see lots of fidgeting from kids at the beginning of an adaptive yoga class: rolling or "folding" the mats, picking chunks out of them, pulling threads from socks or inspecting/removing lint in between toes are some common ones. We usually begin with a process called "The 4B's" which helps satisfy the need to fidget and gets them to focus & engage in what we are doing in the group. I follow with a story and movement to keep them rolling. As soon as I see I am losing them, I switch to another activity-I can always come back to the movement later in the class. We always end with relaxation to help train active bodies and brains that its OK to rest and relax.


Well-meaning statements such as: “Try harder..." or "You need to concentrate" , or even "You can become whatever you want to be if you put your mind to it....” can be frustrating & discouraging for an active student or a student with ADHD. Even though their inattention may not be their strong point, research suggests that inattention increases when a task is repetitive, lengthy, and familiar, and there is a way to use fidgeting constructively as a means to enhance sensory input & improve focus.


A child with ADHD will begin to disconnect when a task becomes repetitive & boring. By doing a secondary activity along with a primary one, the brain can focus better. Any activity that uses another sense besides the one required for the primary activity (such as listening to music while reading a book ) improves the performance of children with ADHD. (This secondary activity is sometimes referred to a “distractor”.

Explore students' different sensory needs and allow and encourage them to try new, minimally disruptive ways to fidget with a purpose. Here are ways that work for my students: (Try them yourself and see if you notice a difference.)

Doodling: (visual/kinetic)

Doodling is one of the least intrusive tools for improved focus. Have students doodle words, numbers or pictures while listening to instructions. Doodling an "X", a circle with designs inside or a sideways "8" are also very helpful to bring visual and mental focus to both sides of the brain at once. Some students doodle a Mind Map to include the lecture ideas or instructions for review later.

Putty, Koosh Balls or Erasers: (tactile/kinetic)

Moving the fingers & hands also facilitates focus when a child is listening or thinking about how to answer a question. You can use any kind of small prop for this: a small rock, seashells,  paper clips, erasers, small rubber balls or toy animals or cars. You want to be sure they are small enough to allow use without distracting classmates.

Music: (auditory)

Background music during classwork, homework or chores that is steady, and not too loud or fast will help improve focus. According to research, the two hemispheres of the brain become stimulated by certain sound types and frequencies. Playing a variety of music helps overcome attention problems by strengthening the connection to both hemispheres of the brain.

Chewing Taffy or Gum:  (proprioceptive/tactile/olfactory/kinetic)

The action and movement of chewing gooey or crunchy foods will help children concentrate for an extended period of time. If you are a teacher who is distracted by the sound of gum chewing, have your students suck on a hard candy instead. Peppermint or spearmint is alerting and adds additional sensory input of taste and smell.

Walk and Talk: (kinetic/proprioceptive)

If your students tune out when you give instructions, try having them move around, put things away or carry out classroom jobs as you talk. Other activities such as standing & stretching, working a puzzle, sidewalk chalk, coloring, cleaning the blackboard or playing catch will also work. This strategy will make it easier to facilitate a discussion, talk about how a child’s day went or gather other important feedback.

Hand/Foot/Scalp Massage: (tactile/kinetic/proprioceptive)

Taking a moment to massage both hands or feet, or even the scalp not only reduces muscle tension & calms and relaxes the central nervous system, but helps both sides of the brain communicate with more clarity.  A hand massage can be done discreetly at a desk and will  not disrupt other students.

*What are some ways that you allow and use constructive fidgeting in the classroom?

To find out more about our "Calm & Connected" program & other classroom tools &teachniques for teachers, please visit our distance learning page.

To find movement based S.M.Art Story™ curriculum guides, filled with dozens of ideas for constructive fidgeting, please visit our products  page.

To receive more articles like this right to your inbox, Subscribe to S.M.Art Kids / Healthy Kids by Email




Contact: barbara@bodylogique.com